#crapsguyssay

I've heard a lot of relationship stories from the people around me. Many about one lying to the other. Not only once, but always.

I don't understand. If you have to lie so much in a relationship, why still want to keep it? What's the point? Isn't being honest one of the compulsory thing in a relationship? Not only lying on his own, but also asking his friends not to tell the gf who is currently not in the country. I pity the gf somehow. One of the biggest cons of being in a ldr is that you have no idea what the other half is doing. You can only know from hearing from himself, or from friends. If everyone decides not to tell you, you'll forever be in the dark, like sohai not knowing what happened and still trusting the bf.

Cheating in a relationship is one of the cheapest things one can do. If you want to cheat, why not just break up and then you can go after someone else publicly without the fear of your gf finding out? Or you actually like the excitement? Or is it that you want to say you still love her but it's just that you want to try something new because you've been with her for so long that she starts to bore you? Or that you want to say you love both of them? Well, fuck all those craps. No matter how terrible one relationship is, no matter who is treating who badly, no matter what at all, the one who starts to fall for someone else while still being in a relationship is always the one at fault. If you want to fall for someone else, do it after you break up.

To those bfs who take advantage of the fact that gf is away and falling for some other girls and wanting to lie about it and act like nothing happened before after she comes back, 我鄙视你.